Person’s Story

I was best friends with this guy for almost 6 years and we decided to start dating in July of this year. He was my best friend and I was his, we got each other through everything, even the ugly stuff. He was my one person I could count on to be there for me. We depended on each other and he was the one person I knew I could count on. He knew my family and I knew his. He broke my heart and it ended really badly. Part of it is my fault too. I miss him and his family and I feel like we will never make amends.

We became best friends so many years ago when my boyfriend at the time introduced us, when me and him broke up we all still remained close friends and me and the other guys relationship grew so much over the years that I became a part of his family, I would go sleep over when he wasn’t even home. We were inseparable and a lot of my friends grew to dislike him because we didn’t really make time for our other friends in our lives. He would always say Iloveyou because he said there was no more space to love me more, he was really great. We would drink wine ( more than we should haha), watch awful reality tv shows, go boating, go to the beach a lot, plan our futures, make fun of each other, he was the kind of guy you could do absolutely nothing with and have the best day of your life with. By far our favorite thing to do was to have sleepovers, get starbucks, or mimosas depending on the day, order bagels from our favorite bagel shop and sit in bed all morning watching the dumbest shoes ( i.e Turdy Works, if you haven’t watched it yet I recommend hah) We broke up for a lot of reasons, he goes away for work so he’s gone 6 months out of the year and the distance was really hard, especially when he came home and couldn’t spend as much time with me, he had really bad commitment issues because of his dad. And on my end I wasn’t open with him about something that affected both of us and it was the final nail in the coffin and now we don’t speak to each other anymore.